How to choose the perfect engagement ring?

Whatever time of year you decide to pop the question, you are likely to make it the best time of year when you get down on one knee and present your other half with a ring that shows just how much they mean to you. Choosing the right time of year to propose is the easy part – when it comes to choosing the perfect engagement ring, some people  find this part a little tricky. How do you find a single piece of jewellery that represents your love for that one person?


It doesn’t matter whether you have £100 or £10,000 to spend (let’s pretend the rich and famous read this blog!) It is about the commitment to one another and declaring your love to them.


As long as the proposal suits you as a couple, and the ring suits your Fiance to be then it shouldn’t matter what your budget is…


However if you are looking for inspiration on how to choose the perfect engagement ring then luckily, AC Silver are experts when it comes to diamond rings and antique engagement rings and have some great advice for you.

Gemstone ring or plain diamond ring?

Most ladies will have tried to drop subtle hints to their partner when they know what they want – it’s just up to you to take them on board. Trust us, it will make engagement ring shopping a lot easier. So, if your future fiancée keeps on talking about sapphire rings, you should most definitely go for a sapphire cluster ring, for instance. Do not be afraid of it not being “traditional” enough — if that’s what she wants, then that’s what she should get. Nowadays, traditions have changed and you are more than free to do whatever you want. The only thing to bear in mind is that some stones are softer than others, so will need some extra care. Diamonds, however, are the most hardwearing gemstones, with a hardness of 10 on the Mohs scale, and for this reason they symbolise an ever-lasting love and are the preferred choice.

“Diamonds are forever”

A safe bet would be a timeless classic, such as a diamond solitaire ring – they are generally guaranteed to impress your other half and you can personally choose the style yourself. An engagement ring is going to be worn daily, and a diamond solitaire ring is the perfect accessory to complement any outfit – and will never go out of trend.

How do you choose the perfect diamond?

A basic understanding of the diamond’s four Cs will help: the four ‘C’s’ being: Cut, Colour, Clarity and Carat-Weight.


Diamonds come in different colours, but the most popular ones still are white diamonds, with a colourless stone being the highest grade. Diamonds are graded from a D colour, which would be colourless, to a Z, which would be light yellow. Generally, anything higher than an I colour can be considered as very high colour graded and will have a nice white colour.


The clarity of a diamond is determined by the size, number and location of natural inclusions within the stone when viewed under 10x magnification. The range varies from an IF, internally flawless indicating no inclusions at all, to an I3, which will be an included stone. Any stone higher than an SI1 or SI2, slightly included, stone will show a good brilliance and the inclusions will not be seen with a naked eye.


The ‘weight’ of a diamond is measured in carats. As the carat weight of a diamond increases, so does its rarity; this will be reflected in the price – the bigger the diamond, the more expensive.


Modern Brilliant round cut:

The modern brilliant round cut diamond is by far the most popular choice of diamond shape these days. A solitaire ring does not necessarily have to be a single stone, it can be embellished on the shoulders or can be arranged around the main gemstone in a halo-like design.

Old European round cut:

This is the antique version of the modern brilliant round cut, with the difference being that it is older (pre-Circa 1920s), and hand cut as opposed to machine cut. An old European round cut diamond will not be as “neat” as a modern cut one, but it will have a distinctive, classic antique and a more unique design. What is also remarkable with older stones is that in addition to a great unique look, such gemstones represent better value for money.

Transitional modern brilliant round cut:

Sitting in between the Old European round cut and the modern brilliant round one, transitional modern brilliant round cut diamonds were typically diamonds cut around the 1930s-60s. These diamonds are often very similar to modern brilliant round cut ones.

Princess cut:

The princess cut is the most popular non-round diamond cut. It is either square or rectangular cut with pointed corners.

Emerald cut:

Emerald cut diamonds can be square or rectangular, but differ from the Princess cut as the corners are tapered, and the pavillion (underside) has a faceted cut. Known for its elegance, this cut sits on the finger sophisticatedly.

Asscher cut:

The Asscher cut diamond is nearly identical to the Emerald cut except that it is square, with a total depth which is typically greater.

So, these represent the most popular diamond cuts, but, obviously, there are less well-known options. These include: marquise cuts, cushion cuts, old Dutch cuts, fancy cuts (heart shaped ones for instance), pear cuts, old mine cuts.

White gold, yellow gold or platinum?

This decision is generally down to personal taste – it is worth considering what your loved one would prefer as well as what will match her other jewellery. White gold and platinum seem to be the most popular options, with platinum having the added advantage of being more hardwearing. Have a look at your partner’s jewellery box — does she have more yellow gold jewellery or more white gold pieces?

Inside information…

If you really are in doubt but want to keep it a surprise for your intended, it is sometimes useful to bring someone with you. The question is who would know their taste best? Maybe their mother, sister or best friend could be a good call? Someone who can keep a secret for sure!

The perfect choice – is yours

Likewise you could throw the “rule book” out of the window and take them shopping so they can pick the ring out themselves. Some people are very picky when it comes to jewelary and may even have a specific ring in mind.

Don’t see this as a negative because it is another way you can both spend quality time together and know they will absolutely love it!

For me personally, Gary and I had talked about our engagement at length and is forever helping me choose my clothes. make up and such like so I had faith in him that he would pick a  beautiful ring that would match my tastes.


If I’m completely honest, I actually wanted the ring to be a surprise as I wanted it to be special, being blind and always having someone assisting you in buying things, constantly asking for their input and hoping it will look good on you from their prospective is quite boring and takes the fun out of the surprise.

White gold ring,with purple amethyst and diamonds


So if you are like me and have faith in your other half to pick for you, then I would go ahead…


They’ll keep the receipt so if you really aren’t a fan, you can always return it and pick out something together!

How to choose the perfect engagement ring if you are visually impaired?

But what if you are blind and are choosing a ring for your significant other? What options are available to you?
You can go online to specific jewelers and see if their websites are accessible, hopefully the screen reader will give you a good visual representation of the ring especially in the product details.
You could take a friend or family member with you, someone that knows your partners tastes.
You could go to high Street, or boutique jewelers and tell them your budget and they could show you a number of rings that would Match your pricing.

And of course you could do all of the above.

However if you are the person receiving the ring, you may want a lot of input…

A suggestion would be explaining what you want and getting your significant other to get a copy made.
That way you can have a look, and feel the ring to see if it matches Your style, you can go shopping together and purchase the ring knowing it is exactly what you want.

A table with multiple engagement cards


Did you let your other half choose or were you a Bridezilla and tell them you wanted to choose it yourself?


I’d love to know in the comments 🙂

* This is a collaborative post

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